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Michael, in your close reading of this transcript, you've accurately articulated the patterns of Trump's mind...the deep-seated, unconscious beliefs that organize all his thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. I'm psychoanalytically trained in infant and early child development. Knowing something of the emotional deprivation Donald experienced in his first two years of life, and the emotional abuse from that time forward, no child could have developed a good feeling about his intrinsic self in a family with such an emotionally absent mother and verbally abusive father.

The patterns you describe map onto a deprived infant's experience of himself and the world. He's the center of the world; mother SHOULD orbit around him. To an infant, as to Trump, that's just logical. (Every infant needs a caregiver whose primary preoccupation is with that helpless baby.) Babies need others to FUNCTION for them. Other people only matter to an infant when they can serve that baby's needs. Otherwise, they are irrelevant, or even harmful, from the baby's point of view. To Trump, other people, institutions, etc. are only relevant in so far as they serve HIS purposes. If they comply with his demands they are "good,' if they don't, they are "bad" or even mortal enemies out to destroy him. Just like a chronically neglected baby, he can become enraged easily and can't tolerate not being the supreme center of attention.

When Trump talks about "the country," he means himself. HE feels threatened, not the country. HE feels damaged, not the country. Every other country is short-changing the U.S., meaning HE'S been short-changed by a bad mommy and dad. They owe the U.S. big time, means that HE feels entitled to something he never got. In his mind, his needs are the ONLY things that matter, and those who don't see it that way have no place in his mind and may not even deserve to exist. He once told Bob Woodward, as if telling him a secret, that "Everything is Mine."

It may be really hard to believe that an adult man could be functioning at the developmental level of an infant/toddler. But profoundly neglected children can turn out that way. If you look at the world Trump creates around him, you'll see Trump at the center doing very little except enriching himself, denigrating others, and giving orders. They have to psychologically and literally function for him, the way a baby needs others to do. They are the target of his intense wrath, his narcissistic rage, when they display ANY autonomy or differ with him in any way. If they do, as Mike Pence did, then "maybe [Pence] deserved to be hung."

The reason millions of us keep trying to understand the latest thing he's done or said, is because we don't understand the deep-seated core of his lived experience. His development became arrested at the earliest stage. Freud said that "we don't understand other people ("hysterics") because we don't have their memories."

The struggle most of us have is that Trump's mind is so different from anything we've ever experienced in an adult man. We've never seen a man with absolutely NO CONSCIENCE, no moral compass beyond what's good for him. If it aggrandizes him then it's good, and everyone else ought to see it that way too. He's DANGEROUS precisely for this reason, and he doesn't mind ignoring the pesky laws and courts that would restrain him, just as he ignored his parents who weren't worthy of his respect. As he did as a child, he just regroups and makes an end-run around them. It might even enhance his sense of self to see others frustrated when they can't contain him. At least he's not being ignored; now HE has the upper hand.

It helps if we understand the principles that shape Trump's mind, so we can predict his behavior. There are no internal limits on what he'll do, no matter what kind of opposition he gets or who gets hurt. He is DRIVEN to behave this way, so it's up to all of the adults still left in America and the world, to set limits and be firm, when and where we can...with laws and non-cooperation. We are literally in a war, not just with Trump's infantile mind, but with the megalomaniacal cabal of co-conspirators he's welcomed into the White House.

It's been ten years in the making but more and more, we're getting our democratic back up. This piece goes a long way toward helping us recognize what we're dealing with.

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What this all fails to acknowledge is that these institutions and norms and yes, even laws themselves, were always voluntary. But the wise amongst the powerful volunteered themselves in exchange for the many to do the same.

When the powerful reject the legitimacy of governance and the primacy of law, the many will follow suit. And the powerful will bear the harshest consequences of it, as they are the most visible and always had the most to lose.

Democracy and the rule of law are not a gracious gift handed down by a benevolent group of old, commoner-loving patriots. They are a framework for understanding and capitalizing on the reality of society that has always existed: governance is granted by the consent of the governed. Social stability can only exist when there is institutional trust.

This man’s efforts to undermine it all is not some clever unmasking of the fact that the rules are all made up. It’s a fatal misunderstanding of the fact that the rules are there to protect all of us from our natural tendencies.

We listen to the opposition because when they’re talking they’re not plotting. When they’re debating, they’re not resorting to violence. Money, itself, (which this man seems endlessly motivated by) is the same sort of fiction. And it’s just paper once the world starts burning.

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